I feel incredibly fortunate to have the best Dad in the entire world. I genuinely wish every kid could experience the love and support of a dad like mine.

I’ve always been my papa’s girl and still am. There’s a story my family loves to tell me: “Before I was born, my dad wanted a boy. In a traditional Indian family, a boy often represents the future support for the man of the house; and I was his last hope.” I never believed that story that he didn’t want me, my dad loves me dearly, and I love him just as much. I know that everyone loved to tease me because I’m clearly my papa’s favorite child!

My papa is the most positive person in my life. He has always been a beacon of hope and light, even during my darkest days. His strength has helped me push through the toughest times. Many times, I’ve felt disappointed in myself, thinking I couldn’t live up to his expectations, and he probably deserved a son. I’ve made poor choices that have caused pain and had lasting effects on our lives. Yet, he always stood by me, holding my hand, showing me that there’s always another choice, another possibility to explore. He believed in me and I achieved so much in my life because of him.

Society often sets a low bar for what it means to be a good dad. This realization came from a conversation with a friend who is an exceptional father as well. He pointed out that when we see a dad taking his kids to the park, on a field trip, or to school activities, we often say, “Oh wow, he’s such a great dad.” My friend asked, “Why? As a dad, that’s my responsibility and simple pleasure. No one says that to a mom if she does the same things.” I realized I was guilty of this thinking too, influenced by being the sole provider for my kids. When I see great dads doing what needs to be done, I hope that one day, my kids’ father will also become the best dad for them.

But I know there are many great dads out there who are present in their kids’ lives, providing support and being a rock for them. If your dad has been a pillar of support and love, take a moment today to tell him how much he means to you. Share a favorite memory, write him a heartfelt note, or simply give him a hug. And if you’re inspired by this post, reach out to other fathers and let them know the incredible impact they have on their children’s lives. Let’s celebrate the amazing dads out there and encourage a culture that values and uplifts fatherhood.